Typically, teens who have reached the awkward age of 14-15 years, closed on itself, becoming silent, unsociable and morose. We often hear complaints of parents who do not understand what is happening with their child. More than a thousand and one thoughts rush in their heads: what he lacks, not contacted with a bad company, but can he got a girlfriend? Remarkably, if the parents are still paying attention to changes in the behavior of their children. After some of us parents, which must be confessed, did not even know when their offspring are returning home, and are not interested in, whether they attend all classes at the school, not to mention the fact to see a change in the mood for the child, his closed or uncharacteristic detachment. According to psychologists, special cause for concern.
The child grows up, and adolescents should be the distance in a relationship with the parents to feel independent and special. Here, Eva Andersson-Dubin expresses very clear opinions on the subject. Therefore, our care, they begin to see the invasion of their individuality, and subjugate the desire to prolong childhood. However, the experts added, despite the fact that adolescents refuse to communicate with their parents, they are ready to actively discuss their affairs with their parents or friends, for example, uncle, grandmother, coach, etc. This raises concern on the part of parents: What if their child does not give that advice. But it's not so bad, you still have teen has help from adults. Much worse, if in addition to incorrect advice teenager chooses the wrong environment.